1st day of 2026!

Well, here we are, it is the 1st day of the new year and the girls went in to do their annual polar plunge (minus Toobs of course). This year I am going to try and post more videos on here instead of photos since I have the photo books and albums already saved. It has been tricky trying to update here with life lately but thankfully it is due to a happy kind of busy and not a stressful one.

We had an incredible 2025 and I am so thankful! We went to Sao Jorge, Denver, Florida, and Costa Rica. The Lacy’s came to visit us in June. Both sissy and guabs threw a friends bday party this year. We didn’t have to leave the house in August which was a nice change for the summer and our Pico house is still just a vision.

Dada quit his job to start his own business and only 3 months later he was offered a job at a different company that was too good to refuse.

We said goodbye to our sweet Rusty boy in January and now get regular visits from Ghost Rusty. The greatest dog lives on through Toobs imagination and Momma’s voice.

We bought a new Hilux truck that I can finally drive! Found a new family member- Meeeeps! Lulu’s health returned, Flower lost weight and is going on regular walks, and the girls started a new online school that they mainly despise so now in this new year we are working on a hybrid solution.

Hmmm, what else. Sissy and Guabs both drove for the first time, Toobs swam underwater, Dada is almost at 5 muscle ups, Momma and dada went a year without drinking and then had a drink in CR for a few weeks and decided to go back to no drinking. Ultimate frisbee is still going strong and for sure the girls favorite day of the week. Lily and Charlie is still Toobs favorite game to play and they have recently adopted some new siblings that are all taking over my kitchen.

Toobs and momma finished Sweep, Holes, and we are currently reading The Wish Tree. SIssy fell in love with Mitch Albom books and has almost read everything he’s written. Guabsy sprouted up like a tree this year and is nearly the same height as sissy. Toobs went on her first playdate at a friends house with the girls. My little 6 year old hanging with her sissies and 18 yr old bestie. What a crew!

Well, Toobs woke up b/c she has a little bug she’s been fighting so it’s time to get to mom-ing. Let’s see if I can keep to updating regularly like I intend to. Thankful for 2025 and excited for 2026. xoxoxo

 

Hanging with Toobs

While the other half of the family were playing UF, me and Toobs were playing pretend house and having a picnic. We built a little driftwood tree and ran up and down sand hills. When we got home Toobs said the most hilarious thing. We set up an app so the entire family could see everyone’s photos and on her iPad a photo popped up of some Xmas presents I had wrapped in the closet before Xmas. She showed me and said uh oh momma, next year (she pointed at the incriminating photo) “You better watch out, you better not cry”- hahahahahaha. Guess i’ll have to keep that in mind next year.

Don’t worry Toobs, I’ll do it all “goodly” next year. Oooh another favorite Toobism.

 

Little bits of Dec

Oh Meeps the annoying little brother always trying to be around Lulu and mess with her. This is him just staring at her like a creep while she eats.

Below that are some pics from family walk and the girls playing laser tag 🙂

 

Does that mind with you?

Oh my little Too bear you are almost 7 and just lost your first top tooth and oooofffff it is all going too fast. You’re sitting next to me and talking to me right now as I type which you are basically doing all day b/c you are now a little chatterbox. You’re so flipping funny and smart.

We are currently reading The Wish Tree and just finished Sweep. We complained about the book Sweep the entire time we read it and how we will never take sissy’s recommendation for a book again b/c it was slow and boring. Then we finished it and both bawled crying at the end. Literally, we sobbed together.

You think you’re a teenager and last night you did “skincare” with a little headband before bed. I tried to video you but you caught me so I am just documenting the memory.

For Xmas you got everything from My little Ponies to makeup. You are a mix of 7 and 17 (thanks to your big sissies). You still call for me every morning with your Momma, Im awake, I miss you, I love you, and I want bubbbbbaaaaaa. I still come rushing down and sign you a morning song that goes something like this:

Good morning to my muff, my little muff a puff, hi ho the derry O, good morning to my muff. I love my little muff, she does her muffy stuff, hi ho the muffy low, I love my little muff.

Then I say something like this:

How’d you sleep guadaleep, howd you sloop guadaloop?

Yup, and we somehow think this is all normal. Anyways, I started this whole post because I wanted to remember something you say that gets me every time and I don’t want to forget in case one day you stop saying it. When you’re trying to ask “is that ok with you” you always say “does that mind with you?”. Ugh it melts me, and of course I reply, no that doesn’t mind with me. Eeeeek I adore you muffy pie!!!!

Pre Xmas girls day in Horta

Twas the week before Xmas and the girls all hopped on the bus for a bit of gift gathering in Horta. I taught Sabs and Sissy how to use their debit card for the first time and now they are all set for this next “adult” step in life. Toobs got a massive hot chocolate with whip cream and Sissy and I split a mediocre apple pie with a side of paper that was apparently attached to it.

Also the bottom photos are from a diff bakery on a diff girls day that week where Toobs and Sissy struggled to eat the toughest pastel de nata. It rated very low on Toobs pastel de nata chart but luckily a few days later she had the yummiest one in Pico to make up for it.

All these photos were from back when Toobs had two front teeth (one hanging on for dear life)

Tic Tac lost her top tooth all on her own! Dec 21 @ 5:30am

Wohooo Tic tac to the paddy wak! You were so determined to lose this tooth on your own terms and you did just that! At 5:30am I felt a little tap on my arm and opened my eyes to your big fat wide awake smile and sweet little toobie hand proudly holding your shiny front tooth! You were too excited to back to sleep so we got up together and watched Tall Girl on netflix while you excitedly plotted how you were going to tell the rest of the family when they woke up. One by one they came up the stairs and you gave your newly toothless smile with such pride. You already told Ghost Rusty, Flower, Pico Mountain, Meeps and basically any voice I make that you can speak to. You have been waiting for this day. You told me it is your favorite smile that you’ve had, and you think you look beautiful. Of course you do. Later that day the family had Ultimate Frisbee and you and I went to the Chinese store then walked all the way down to Porto Pim stopping to get your first toothless ice cream treat. It was freezing, you weren’t phased. We arrived at the beach both wearing brand new Chinese store Xmas stocks b/c I was 100% phased.

By the end of the day you were too tired to write the tooth fairy card so you wanted to wait until today to write it. I have a feeling she’s been waiting for this day too and you will wake up to some happy surprises tomorrow!! I love you muffin pie. So thankful to be the one sleeping right next to you, getting tapped at 5:30am and waking up to the sound of your precious excitement. You are amazing. xoxoxoxo

Lesley’s annual costume party!

The theme this year was Under the Sea so the girls made their own jellyfish costumes and were proud to take home the prize for best costume! They had a blast as always and stayed late playing ring toss with Justin. Toobs chose to stay on her own with the girls while Will and I left to go get dinner ready before UF and she said she had the best time after! She said Justin picked her up and swung her around like a dad would. Sweet little love growing up. Last year she was still a bit shy at the party but this year she was walking up to random grannies and starting conversations. Ugh so proud and just adore her so much. Toobs just be Toobin.

 

Sunday update

The girls have all had their first full week back at school and Toobs completed her 1st spelling test. Guab and Sissy have started at FLVS combined with Outschool and thankfully are both really liking it!

After 3+ weeks everyone is finally healthy! I was able to play Ultimate Frisbee on Thursday and didn’t have any setbacks, plus lifted weights again this week so hallelujah! Today is Sunday so that means Frisbee again!

Dada is currently surfing at Praia do Norte so hopefully he returns w/o any broken bones. The girls went to Tricia’s this week with Lily and did paper mache with the grannies. Meeps has had almost a full week with no balls and is still meeps crazy so I bought a water bottle weapon. He cracked my papaya plant in half🤬 so now I’m experimenting growing 2 from 1. Lulu seems to be tolerating him more but still swats him and hisses. I think she finds him entertaining b/c I noticed her watching him yesterday and sitting in the yard in an unusual spot for her just staring at his weird meep antics.

As I am writing this I just caught him in my hibiscus plant so yes we’re still working on this.

Still no house updates. Still chasing responses from builders.

Sissy finished The Book Thief and said she nearly cried at the end. We’re not allowed to watch the movie until Guab reads it and she gave her a month deadline so we’ll see. Guab is still reading The Pharmacy girl and Toobs and I are reading Sweep. It was one of sissy’s favorite books when she was about 10yrs but so far we are about 1/2 way through and Im not sure Toob’s feels the same.

The girls were counting the weeks to Xmas yesterday. It’s September. Help.

Pic from Tricia of the girls and the grannies.